Detached comments can backfire with Scorpios: They desire depth, intense feeling and the utmost in sincerity in all situations — most especially in love! Capricorn, so busy with achieving and with how others perceive them sometimes fails to take a chance with their emotions. From Scorpio, Capricorn will learn the value of looking below the surface of things, the rich pleasure that can come from deeply knowing another person. Both Signs share a love of committing to a task. Mars and Pluto represent aggression, courage, sexual energy, rebirth and renewal. Saturn teaches the great lessons in life — hard work, diligence, ambition and responsibility.
This is a dynamic team for business, sure, but they all that achieving energy could translate well to affection and love.
Earth Signs are all about practical matters, about material possessions. What a good balance, then, for those of the Water element. If it is, expect success. If their Capricorn partner shows that much initiative, Scorpio will enthusiastically follow along, excitedly, if not a bit smugly, throwing in their own ideas, too. Scorpio can toss out some barbed comments under their breath or in such a sexy tone of voice that Capricorn might not even notice. Both Signs can be stubborn, and this could lead to some potential conflict. Also, Scorpio falls hard, emotionally involving themselves almost to the point of no return, in stark contrast to the sometimes-distant Sea Goat.
Both partners must recognize this and accept it if the relationship is to be successful. Their determination toward shared ideas and their strong devotion to one another. Looking for answers? Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. I am a scorpion female and have been with my Aquarian husband over a decade now and the last 2 years married with 2 wonderful boys.
After all these years I can honestly say we still have a solid bond and extreme love for each other as if was still yesterday when we met. Communication, motivation, and money seem to be are biggest challenges as a couple but the peace, love, and care I get seem to overweigh the other stuff. I noticed that a lot of these comments are really old, but I am very interested in finding out if any of you are still together. I believe that a Scorpio is the person for me, they understand me more than anyone else I've ever been with.
I've just started officially dating a Scorpio man a month ago though it took 5 months of talking to get to that point and we're already completely head over heels in love with one another. Because I am an Aquarius that sees him clearly I've been dropping information bombs along the way about the importance of communication between our signs. As a younger Scorpio he has some bad habits but only because he's never been with a woman of my caliber and he's a quick study. He's extremely loyal and loving and he brings me back into my body. Our souls have loved many lifetimes before and I truly feel that I've found a soul mate in my beloved Scorpio.
He's changed me already in profound ways and we're both better for it. From what I've read about this match, it's quite uncommon and it's either Love or Hate, however, if both parties are mature enough to accept the love they have to share with each other and communicate anything is possible and THIS pairing is worth the work, my god is it worth it.
Both of these signs should contemplate how they come across to those close to them. Much is often lost in the quest to reach another. However i just find him interesting and yeah his charm it stings me.. He is also one of my friends that is why sometimes we hang out.. Aquas i think in my case really not an emotional person outside but they are full of emotions inside. I think that is their defense mechanism.. I understand also why scorpios so emotional.
I wish that these two signs will consider their love with each other always so that they will understand each other's differences and weirdness. I am having some struggle with a Leo man with Scorpio rising. I am an Aquarius with sun in Leo and moon in Gemini. He has his moon in Capricorn. Could you get me some. Im a scorpio female, getting involved with an aquarius male. I can't understand him half of the time, but I find his quirkiness and sense of humour irresistible.
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I think the best way to get involved with an aquarius is being friends first. They don't seem to be the sensual kind in the beginning! In the meanwhile they may treat you like a buddy, which can be a bit of a turnoff. But as the relationship progresses and they realise they want you, they become more romantic. Romantic in their own offbeat way, mind you! Maybe they won't give you a traditionally romantic gift, they'll probably give you something really unique. But think twice before dismissing it and pay attention to the story around it there IS usually a story! They can be very warm and then become distant in a matter of hours.
Sometimes they can be a bit cranky. They need space, but thing is, they always end up coming around if they care, and that happens quite soon. In fact, they're always around if they like you, they just jump from attached to detached state. So as far as the scorpio is confident that his distancing isn't because of some other woman, the distance can work fine. But there has to be trust. If that trust isn't built yet, it can be frustrating and quite difficult for scorpio to let her guard down and invest emotionally in our young years we get totally consumed by emotions, but as we become older we find ways to put a reign on them because they can literally destroy us.
But don't think for a moment that aquarius can't be possessive once your story has progressed a bit. Don't go out of your way to make him jealous, but observe his reaction if you interact with other men, or if you make plans without him. He won't cause a scene, but you'll be able to see in his eyes and his tone of voice that he's seething. I can't talk about the bedroom yet because this has been a slow pace relationship. Overall, I think that aquarius and scorpio is a bit of an unlikely pair.
BUT from the scorpio point of view, I can say with confidence that scorpio has a lot to gain from that relationship, especially the scorpios that are born near mid november. We're closer to saggitarius, and can be a strange mix: we long for freedom and lightness of being but that heaviness of scorpio is still present and drains us at times.
We wish that sometimes life was simpler. And aquarius, being the intellectually creature he is, can drag us from our emotional labyrinths and show us another way of reacting to life. And that goofiness and quirkiness of aquarius is enough to make a scorpio forgive him for being detached at times.
OK, you're the Scorp you are expecting consistency, integrity, straight shooting and all that serious stuff.
Aquas are not flibbertygibbits, they are getting vibes from within that they're always acting on. The travel and distance keep in mind cause an inattentive quality in the Aqua. They alsmost forget your name when you're right in front of them. Take her word for it if she is interested but by no means bring the usual expectations, especially Scorpion expectations. I would say "let it ride" for awhile. You seem like a pretty real guy and this a very real conversation.
You know it's going down. I have been dating an aqua girl long distance, she has a young son we are both divorcees. Knew each other before hand there always seemed to be a vibe. Nothing was explored until recently. I see her every few weeks. The third date when we were finally alone she turns out the lights I put the music on we start light touching and all of a sudden she.
Needs to go to bed. I happened to be staying at her house so I just went to bed and she did this thing where she kept her bedroom door open, how ever I did not venture. I came back into town we ended up going out with some other people. At the end of the night we had some action, still no sex. And that's where I am now ,getting ready to go back into town. She only likes to communicate by text and Facebook, until I'm in town.
It came across my mind that she must be a serious player, but when I am with her that's hard to believe. So tell me am I being played or is patience the watch word. You have come to the point where understanding both triads is how people get along, and don't, together. Air really lacks empathy. They don't understand the inner workings of water. Which is why by "general" standards, these elements cannot get eachother.
So much i understand why astrologers say what they say. But it IS more than just sun signs. And there has to be water with water houses in the chart of the Aquarius in my opinion to understand a water person. Anyway I thought I'd say that because astrology really helped me understand on a deeper level Any two people who love each other have a chance. I believe in consciousness of each mate having awareness of the other. Regardless of the sun sign. Yes, Scorpio and Aquarius are a difficult pair. But then Scorpio and Aquarius are difficult in general with anybody.
If you want my deeper analysis, go to the TRIAD article, get your sun, rising and moon signs and give me those two matchings, and I will do a better analysis. It's free.
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You will need the hour of birth, plus city and birthdate, obviously. I will look for "Lechiaa". I'm a scorpio girl And my boyfriend is an aquarius. Him and I have been dating for seven months now. A few months back he showed me a site where it said we were not meant for each other at all.
I kept telling him that it only ends like that when the people stop caring. And that there is a chance for me and him to be together. And now that I read this page about out signs it a sures me that we do have a chance.. That's what people don't get Scorpios are earnest. They don't play around.
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Even when you think they are playing around, they are not playing around. Its all earnest all the time. That should be the real one word description. They won't abandon you unless you have become unregenerate or completely negative. Here's to you. But, I do understand, after learning more of astrology- in depth, how loyal and very deep they love. They truly will never abandon you. Now, you just have to live with all that Scorpio. From what I know of Aquarius, you will do your dead level best. Maybe because i have a mutable moon and a rising in a mutable sign. He has a mutable moon and rising as well.
We both adapt very well to each other, but even with that, it wasn't "effortless" in the beginning. Oh it was not smooth riding. But, i love him and he loves me. I guess it prepared me. See if you say this then you don't comprehend what scorpios mean by love. Aquarius is the humanitarian sign but they don't understand a great deal of humanity at all. He doesn't really want to hurt you but is actually destroying a part of himself.
Aquababy: it's not that it's misunderstood, it's just that even if you love with your whole being, it's still not enough for a scorpio. It is still an indirect way of love and emotion, scorpios do not consider that to be "the real thing". Even if you love with your whole being and have the best intention, you are still unable to process emotion the same way a scorpio does from birth and totally NEEDS this in the partner too.
It's very sad but it is true, even if both of you really want to make it together, you are just plain incompatible. This is very true.
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Aquarians do not represent themselves well in this regard. Recently, an Aquarian at a family gathering turned to me and said "Tell her what I really feel inside". I did not try to do that, but I did say: "Disclosing their insides, their emotional heart is a difficult challenge for them. Sometimes I feel an aquarius gets a bad rep for not showing emotion the way other signs do but as far as the love thing goes yes we do know how to love and we do so with our whole beings and I think maybe thats why we sometimes distance ourselves because we don't want to be hurt.
In all reality we are sensitive and hurt just like any other sign when love goes wrong. An Aquarius' feelings for you can't just be in her head. When an Aquarius loves, it's with her whole being. Or at least that's the way I loved my Scorpio guy, but he stung me anyways. Love is so much more than something that is just physically projected. Anyone can pretend to physically project love. I wanted to teach him If I was able to hate him , I'd hate what he did to me and anyone who hurt him obviously someone did for him to sting me the way that he did.
I see that people are interested in helping out quite a bit, and that's fine, that's what this form is for. But I myself just went through a personal situation with an Aquarius and a Scorpio just this weekend. Without getting into the yelling and crying, I must say that not only are both of these signs FIXED and stubborn, they are also different in so many ways that both must apply a set of glasses so that they can communicate their desire to get along. This is a very difficult combination.
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The first thing these two should ask is "How much real love do we feel we have? This is very true i went threw this things with my ex we always bump heads becouse we are both stuburn so yes i had to break it off it was to much for me i decided to move on.. Im a Scorpio guy dating an Aquarius girl and I think our demise came from my jealousy and possesivness which o feel stems from the fact that she is more outgoing and social than I am..
I also felt she wasn't as demonstrative in her feelings towards me and that they were in her head and couldn't be physically projected There is so much text above, I cannot really do justice to the complexity of the commentary. Ask me a simple question, and I will try to give my best heartfelt response. These matters are so heavy to the individual, that when people bare the care of their souls, I do not want to pretend to comprehend as much as they think I can comprehend.
When this depth is involved, I would rather go to the surface, splash around on the beach and think about the basics. If you have a basic feeling, ask me. My posts were generalisations, so far these were my experiences with aqua women, but of course this doesn't mean that they apply to every case. I know that the basically emotional landscape experienced by "typical" scorpios is only in their heads, and that the basically mental landscape experienced by "typical" aquarians is only in their heads. What I meant is that even so, "typically" these landscapes are so far away from each other that the distance cannot really be overcome by transformation, as that would mean self-denial, would do more harm than good.
Trying to experience life in a way that one cannot. But since only 3 signs experience life through pure emotion, most people probably don't understand what we mean by all this. I understand your frustration. If it makes you feel better to think that all similarities of these types in all cases are going to react the way you feel they will, then go ahead and feel that. However, if you feel that these kinds of transformations for you two can not occur, then most certainly for you, they won't.
I wish you the best in the future. I think you misunderstood that, it's not stubbornness.
There is such a fundamental difference between how the brains of these two signs on a biological level work that even if they truly want to, they can't transform their nature enough. The "wierdness" is why certain combinations of souls will never work. It's a divorce preventative. If a combination such as this does lead to a union, then a "transformation" of one or two of them is in order.
Neither is going to choose to change. They call it stubborn. This combination will never truly work. Scorpio lives, experiences everything through feelings and initially thinks aquarius is the same. But in time scorpio will realise that there is something very, very weird going on here, something so odd that it even eluded the scorpio intuition. Because the way aquarius really ticks is so alien to scorpio that scorpio never even thought something like that can exist at all. You see a tipical aquarius does not feel feelings at all.
Yes there are feelings, maybe even quite deep ones somewhere in the aquarian mind, but they are verbalised and then pushed aside, and all this happens automatically. Scorpio thinks that to live is to feel right? Wrong, not with aquarius. Scorpio then realises the mystical reason why aquarius seems passionless is not so mystical at all, they are in fact passionless. Scorpio realises that the emotional bonds between them never actually existed, scorpio just imagined them.
Because aquarius is unable to bond emotionally, aquarian "emotions" are locked away somewhere and are never used this way. Also, aquarius will never understand what went wrong because they have no idea what it is to live through feelings. I'm a scorp male btw, aquarian girls seem to fall in love with me all the time cause we have interesting conversations, they seem to confuse love with friendship because of all this mental nonsense they are doing, it's very weird.
He sounds like a typical Scorpio. You have to be in love with a Scorpio. You have to be. Every morning they are going to be themselves. Your Aquarian was probably very understanding a few years ago because Aquas can see things that are not there. Their certainty arises from within and from way way way out there - but seldom from what's in front of them. But eventually what's in front of them becomes so absolutely real that their "see and understand everything" lens gets burnt out. It sounds like you are really suffering. Have you talked about counseling? Are you beyond counseling?
I think that's the question you need to be asking. You are a fixed sign. Aquarians are Air and Fixed. Stubborn Aquarians do not believe they are stubborn. Guess what? However, they KNOW they are stubborn.